So after experiencing the Landmark Forum (see previous post) you can take a 10-week seminar course. It doesn’t cost anything (it’s included in the Landmark Forum price) and helps to support any breakthroughs from the Landmark Forum. So I have completed three weeks of my seminar series and in some way the series is better than the Forum. I suppose it is ‘better’ in that it has every day application. So suddenly the Forum becomes real life.
My Possibilities:
One part of The Forum is creating new possibilities for your life based on the un-familiar. So when I have ‘breakdowns’ in my life, which can be as simple as losing the car keys and getting angry, to flipping out because my girlfriend moves out, I can create a new possibility based on the future of what could be rather than the usual way of dealing with breakdowns…which is from my past.
Example of a Paula Moore breakdown:
I think about my ex meeting a new women: my familiar way of being would have this mean:
- she doesn’t give a toss and never did
- I will cut her out of my life
- poor me this always happens
- it shouldn’t be this way
- I should be able to move on
So, I could create a new possibility in the face of this breakdown based on the un-familiar (ways I have not yet been from my past). So the new possibility could be that I am peaceful and if this was truly possible and I was peaceful I could have some actions that would support this:
- I could share my breakdowns when they occur and make real to people my new possibility
- I could continue to having loving thoughts of my ‘ex’ and wish her well
- I could allow myself to be sad and thus recognise that the missing really comes from a relationship that I am proud of
Being ‘peaceful’ is inspiring for me in that it immediately makes possible:
- meeting someone new and falling in love
- keeping a good relationship with someone I have loved in the past (my ex)
- making new friendships and becoming quite social again
- enjoying my life right now (yes even during a breakup)
Sometimes I am not sure if this is all working but then again I realise there is no fixing to be had, only new possibilities and this is all new territory so of course I am not familiar with how this ’should’ be feeling. I am quite sure that something is definitely different with/inside of me. I am starting to slowly fall in love with Paula Moore (maybe for the first time).
To experience any of what I have talked about check out Landmark at www.landmarkeducation.co.uk !
With peace,
Paula
I’m now going through the 10 week seminar. It’s very refreshing. I’ve experienced some breakthrough and breakdowns. I’m so glad that Landmark is there to give us the support we need in order to be powerful in every aspect of our life. I’t s a gret seminar thus far. I’m just coming up to week 4. So many great things have opened up for me and my life. Just thought I’d share this with you.
Erika D. Ferrell
Canada